Is there such a thing as balance when it comes to fitness and family?

Finding time for fitness has always been a non-negotiable for me. I need to exercise just as much as I need my daughter to understand the importance of exercise. It doesn’t mean it’s always easy, but it’s definitely doable if you want it to be. Here are some tips from me and Erin, who has 10 and 14-year-old boys.

1.Start early. Like with any habit, the more times it’s done the easier it becomes and the more accepted it is. At first, it may feel impossible to workout with a baby or toddler around, but don’t give up. Eventually, your kids will come to expect it and they’ll realize their efforts to demand your attention during that time will fail. If you’re starting when they are a bit older, make the transition easier by inviting them to participate or starting with shorter durations of time. If you’re starting young, try outdoor workouts first. Kids love being outdoors and will be distracted by the environment which means less work for you.

2.Find activities you can do together as a family. This serves several purposes: A) It allows you to burn calories and workout without mom guilt. B) It creates memories of time spent together. C) It helps the whole family relieve stress and improve health. D) It shows your family the importance of caring for your body through movement. E) An added bonus is finding new things to do as your kids get older (think going from pushing them in a jogging stroller while you run to mountain biking together on vacation). 

3.Have a plan B. Not everyone enjoys working out at home or alone, but if you have a family sometimes that’s the only way to stay consistent. This doesn’t mean it has to be your primary source of exercise, but having a go-to fitness routine when schedules change, kids get sick, or the day gets away from you is crucial.

Get off your phone! How often do you go to an activity for your kids or the park and just sit and scroll. That’s precious time! Make a plan to be active. Get comfortable with a quick workout during soccer practice or playground time. Your kids are moving, why shouldn’t you?

Be flexible. You might not get the room to yourself for home workouts...exercise anyway. Kids, pets, partners...let them watch, participate (or challenge you with distractions), but don’t let that be your reason not to workout.

Book the time on your calendar (and the family calendar if you have one) and honor it! Workouts shouldn’t be the first thing cancelled alllll of the time. Sure things will come up, but treat that time as though it is a lunch with a best friend or a critical work meeting with your most important client. If you have a consistent schedule, book for the same time each week for a month in advance. If not, aim to schedule your fitness on a weekly basis.

Ask for help. Exercise is essential for good health (this is a fact, not an opinion). Moms have a hard time asking for help. We think we need to justify ourselves. We think we need to manage it all. If we can get past that mindset we would be a lot healthier. Fitness is a great reason to ask for help. Let’s stop feeling guilty about it.

The truth is balance in any area of life may not truly exist, but priorities do. It’s fine if fitness isn’t in your top 3-5 priorities, but if it is, YOU CAN and will make it work. It’s true I may not have time for other things if I’m prioritizing exercise (tv, sitting down for lunch, cooking dinner every night), but I’m OK with that, because I feel like I am balancing fitness and family (most of the time!).

Erin has found success by choosing virtual strength sessions and the monthly membership program. Let me know if I can help you find your fitness while balancing your family!