How To Start Working Out: Framework for Moms

Whether you’re pregnant and want to begin exercising to have a more comfortable pregnancy or a new mom ready to focus on fitness again, with all of the apps and internet clutter it can be hard to figure out where to begin. That is why I’m sharing the method I developed and have used with hundreds of moms and moms-to-be. It’s called Core, Function & Fitness (CFF). CFF is an approach. It’s a strategy. It’s a guide to help you determine where to begin your fitness journey and a framework to help you prioritize what to focus on during your workouts.

Whether you’re pregnant and want to begin exercising to have a more comfortable pregnancy or a new mom ready to focus on fitness again, with all of the apps and internet clutter it can be hard to figure out where to begin. That is why I’m sharing the method I developed and have used with hundreds of moms and moms-to-be. It’s called Core, Function & Fitness (CFF). CFF is an approach. It’s a strategy. It’s a guide to help you determine where to begin your fitness journey and a framework to help you prioritize what to focus on during your workouts.

The Foundation

During and after pregnancy, the foundation of your fitness program should be core strength and function. Core refers to the 360-degree cylinder from your diaphragm to your pelvic floor, including both abdominal and back muscles. A functional core means that your deep stabilizing muscles activate to support your spine before any movement. A functional core also means, you know how to breathe (exhale on exertion) with movement, and that you’re treating any pelvic floor concerns like tight pelvic floor muscles or urinary incontinence. A strong and functional core will enhance your ability to advance in exercise and will make daily life more comfortable.

If we look at CFF as a pyramid, “core” is the base layer and what you’ll prioritize when you begin an exercise program. This doesn’t mean that core needs to be your only focus, but if you’re short on time or searching for workouts, this will help you strategize and select the correct exercises. If time and energy aren’t an issue you can certainly do workouts that are more than core, but keep in mind that if your core isn’t yet strong and functional, you’ll want to ensure any other formats of exercise you’re choosing don’t require more core strength then you presently have.

For example, if you’re pregnant and beginning an exercise program, you can focus on breathing and engaging your abs with each movement you perform. So if you’re doing squats, lunges, and arm exercises, rather than just going through the motion, you’re exhaling on exertion or engaging the deep abs as you curl the dumbbell during a biceps exercise.

Middle of the Pyramid

So now that you’ve spent some time activating your pelvic floor, deep abs, and using your breath, you’re ready to shift your focus to “function”. The term functional training is a bit trendy so I’ll provide you with my simple definition. Functional training is performing exercises that help you meet the physical demands in your life. This means factoring in the type of job you have, the workouts you plan to do, or the physical demands of caring for your child at different stages. During pregnancy functional training can be performing exercises that help you better adapt to the changes your body is experiencing, like strengthening your back because you’re being pulled forward due to the weight of your breasts and belly. Function is the next step in my model because you should be able to feel good moving through your daily life before setting more lofty fitness goals (for example if your back hurts every time you lift your child, doing an hour spin class maybe shouldn’t be your priority). Functional training also means addressing pain and specific weaknesses. It is easier to attain function when you have a strong core, so for that reason “function” sits on top of the “core” layer in my pyramid.

Top of the Pyramid

You’re ready to move up the pyramid when you have a solid core foundation and you’re functionally moving well during the day and your workouts. “Fitness” is the top piece and refers to goals such as muscle definition, weight loss, sports performance, and running. This is the last step along the CFF progression because you’ll have a better chance of achieving fitness when you effectively know how to engage your core and you know how to perform exercises correctly and without pain. I’ll reiterate that it doesn’t mean that you have to wait to set your fitness goals, but increasing your run distance shouldn’t be the priority before you’ve spent time on the other components. When you move to the top of the pyramid, the idea is that you’ve already set yourself up to achieve your specific fitness goals.

For example, if you do have a goal to run postpartum, you can first focus on making sure your core can support proper running form, and that your pelvic floor muscles can handle the impact and load. Functional training might include single-leg strength activities so that when you do run, your body is better prepared. 

Summary

I developed the Core, Function and Fitness method to help you prioritize your efforts, and make workout selection less overwhelming. The pyramid can also be explained as a pie chart with the percentages of core, function and fitness components shifting as your needs are being met. Maybe you’re starting with core being 80% of the chart because you just had a baby, but after a few months of training, core might then become just 30% and fitness taking the majority. This pie chart is a good visual because it emphasizes that you’re never solely focusing on just one thing. All components are important and will be integrated into your plan.

Whether you like the pyramid or the pie chart, the main point I'm making is that this is a tool that can keep you active through all 40 weeks of pregnancy, and help you feel stronger than ever after having a baby.

Designing a Personalized Fitness Plan

Don’t get me wrong, I love seeing so many apps like Nike and Peloton offer prenatal and postpartum workouts. However, the downside is that most moms will jump around to different workouts and won’t “personalize” their exercise program.

When I talk about a personalized workout plan, I’m referring to developing and following an exercise regimen specifically for you. This doesn’t mean you have to work with a personal trainer or that every exercise session needs to be planned specifically for you, however, that is the ultimate way to make sure you have a customized exercise plan. 

Personalization just means that you’re aware of what you need, and what it will take for you to reach your goals. You can still try different apps or studio workouts, but you should be intentional in the classes you’re choosing, when you’re doing them, and how you’re recovering from them. 

Motherhood is a time to be strategic in your plan and stay away from haphazardly following fitness influencers and trends. Personalizing your fitness routine will help you stay consistent and see the results you’re working toward! Exercise can be your biggest mental and physical health tool if you approach it the right way!

What are the benefits of personalizing your mom fitness program?

Personalization is advantageous for all moms, but particularly when you’re training during and after pregnancy. Your prenatal exercise routine and postpartum fitness plan should most definitely be customized. With a tailored regimen, you can expect:

• Workouts that fit into your daily routine. With a personalized plan, you design the workout schedule around your existing commitments (which often fluctuate as your child goes through different phases, so be ready to adapt often). 

• Personal goal achievement. Generic plans only help you meet general goals. If you have specific goals, then you need a targeted workout plan. For example previous to pregnancy you may have been training for toned abs, but during pregnancy, this is not your aim so your plan needs to change so that it aligns with your prenatal goals. 

• A safe progression in exercise. A personalized plan will have you progress at a pace appropriate for your individual fitness level. Each workout should build on the previous one.

• Faster results. Don’t spend your precious time and energy on exercises that may not be your priority. Instead, customize your plan for effectiveness and efficiency. For example, you may have liked using the elliptical machine during pregnancy, but if your main focus postpartum is alleviating back pain then the majority of your effort should be spent on core stability workouts instead of sweating away at the gym.

So how do you personalize your fitness routine?

The first step is being self-aware of the factors that you should account for. Here are a few examples of things to consider when planning for fitness success:

1. Exercise History

2. Current Energy Levels

3. Physical Injuries or Conditions

4. Lifestyle Factors

By reflecting on your unique situation and needs in areas like these, you can craft a fitness routine with purpose. Try this self-assessment as an initial step toward personalizing your exercise program.

Evaluate Often

As you move through motherhood your needs WILL change so remain flexible and be willing to reassess. Your needs in your second trimester may be different than your first trimester, and your progress postpartum may be slower than expected. Be ready to make adjustments so that your fitness journey is fluid and customized.  

No one-size-fits-all workout plan can give you the same benefits as a thoughtful and personalized plan. I'm on a mission to help moms feel strong and confident by taking control of their fitness journey. I hope I’ve inspired you to determine a clear direction for your unique needs so that you can develop a fitness plan that works for you!

Feeling Overwhelmed When You Think About Returning to Fitness?

As we all know exercise has many physical and mental health benefits. We all are also probably somewhat familiar with exercise guidelines and recommendations. So why does beginning an exercise program after having a baby feel so difficult? The answer is that there are many real challenges for new moms. Being a military mom adds another layer of barriers and stressors. Sleep deprivation, lack of time, changed priorities, minimal support from family, fear, birth complications, pain, lack of postpartum exercise and healthcare resources, and pressure to lose weight and perform, are all very real barriers (not excuses!). Although every mom’s journey back to exercise will be different, these three general strategies can make your return to exercise a little less overwhelming.

1) Understanding Changes to Your Body: Having information and knowledge about the anatomical and physiological changes during and after pregnancy will validate why you feel weaker despite exercising during pregnancy, or why you can’t seem to lose the last five pounds, or why you’re experiencing soreness like you never have before. Understanding how the changes to your body impacts fitness is essential, yet most postpartum care doesn’t include such information. Having this understanding will help you make sense of why workouts feel so difficult, why you’re not seeing progress at the rate you’re used to, and hopefully allow yourself some grace during those first few months after having your baby. 

There could be an entire book about this, but hormones play a huge role in muscle development and exercise recovery. Hormones don’t stabilize immediately after giving birth, and even when they begin to “balance out”, other hormones due to lack of sleep and stress can keep your hormones at levels that will impact your ability to lose weight, workout at higher intensities, and recover after a workout. Additionally, hormones can have an impact on your mood, affecting your motivation to exercise and desire to hit the gym like you used to. If you’re breastfeeding, you’ll have an even longer delay of hormones getting back to pre-pregnancy levels, so having the understanding that breastfeeding doesn’t automatically make it easier to change your body composition due to so many other factors, is also really important.

In addition to hormones, you need to have an understanding of tissue healing. You may be feeling stronger and ready for more physical activity, but whether you’ve had a vaginal delivery or c-section, your abdominal wall and pelvic floor tissues can take 9-12 months to fully heal and regain strength. Having this understanding is important so that you’re not choosing exercises that will do more harm than good, hence stunting your progress and inhibiting fitness results. Exercise is important in healing, but not over stressing the tissues is crucial in progressively increasing strength and function. This means if running feels overwhelming, that’s OK. Recent guidelines suggest that running and other high impact activity shouldn’t even happen until at least 12 weeks postpartum, and after proper strength training.

Hormones, tissue healing, and other factors don’t mean that you can’t exercise, in fact you absolutely should. Those factors also don’t mean that you won’t see results. What those changes to your body do mean is that you shouldn’t expect to exercise at your same pre-pregnancy level right away, and that initially, your program will probably need to look different. Having this understanding about the changes to your body means you’ll be able to gradually progress in fitness. As long as you’re moving forward with no setbacks, you’ll get there.

2) Prioritize: Being able to prioritize will help ease some of the pressure and stress around exercising. You’re probably used to thinking of fitness as aerobic, strength, and flexibility. And you’re correct, these are all major components of fitness. However, as a new mom it’s important that you make the most of your time and energy. To set yourself up for success, you should prioritize the type of workouts and exercises you’re choosing. Your first priority should be on healing. This includes any tears, incisions, scarring and any emotional trauma, depression, or anxiety. So if you once prioritized high intensity cardio and heavy weights, you’ll need a mental shift to feel good about the workouts your body needs. Next you should prioritize core strength and function, specifically addressing any concerns for abdominal separation, back pain, or pelvic floor dysfunction (pain or incontinence). Next make sure you’re functional. Functional strength training is somewhat of a trendy term, but for moms it means that you can perform all of your daily movements and demands of caring for a baby without pain. As it relates to exercise, it means you have mastered all of the major movement patterns (squat, lunge, hinge, push, pull, rotate/anti rotation) with good technique, and ability to recover. Your last priority is progressing to more vigorous physical activity and your traditional fitness goals. After you have the foundation of core strength and functional movements, you should be able to advance comfortably and with reduced injury risk. This is a simplified progression, but I like to think of Core, Function and Fitness as a pie chart with different percentages. You’ll always be working on all parts, but the percentage of each will change based on your priorities and needs.

3) Mental Shift: This has been touched on a bit already, but the first step in returning to exercise is mental. The fitness requirements of the military are relevant, but this comes secondary to how you view postpartum physical activity, especially now that you have a year to meet your military fitness and body composition goals. Your body has changed so your workouts will and should as well. The goals you once set were for a different body. Exercise should be a tool and if you begin to look at it that way, you will choose and plan your workouts differently, and with less stress. During the first few months, what type of exercise will help you heal? What type of exercise can you do without childcare? What workouts are realistic with the time you have? If you’re not sleeping, when is the best time of day to exercise and the appropriate intensity? Shifting your perspective about fitness and exercise is not a sign of weakness, but rather a helpful and smart tactic.

Now that you have those three general strategies to help you overcome the numerous barriers you face as a mom returning to exercise, I want to make it very clear that being a mom does not have to negatively impact your fitness. Moms actually have an advantage when it comes to fitness. By training in a very specific way and a way that you’ve never trained before, you have the ability to have a stronger core, be more functional, and feel stronger than you’ve ever been. Why? Because now your training will probably include pelvic floor muscles and breathing techniques, making your core function optimally. By caring for a baby, you’ll probably need to address posture, aches, and pains caused by muscle weaknesses/tightness, that you just ignored before. Your workouts as a mom will now have more meaning and serve many more purposes. If you can understand what your body needs, prioritize the proper exercise progression, and change your mindset, you will feel strong and confident in your body again.

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Summer is Coming: Tips for Moms to Meet Their Fitness Goals

I’ll start with a disclaimer that I don’t love the idea of people putting pressure on themselves to up their exercise routine in preparation for summer. I firmly believe fitness is a lifestyle and the best way to sustain results is to be consistent year round. However, with that said, I also see nothing wrong with having aesthetic or other goals that make you feel confident this summer. So if you’re someone that is working toward your summer fitness goals, keep reading for a few tips.

Pregnancy Tips:

Summer can be an uncomfortable time to be pregnant. In order to stay active and continuing to make progress in your fitness consider the following 3 tips.

• Exercise first thing in the morning: hot summer days can make it harder for you to regulate your body temperature, and quite honestly can just feel draining. Use the month of May to start a morning workout routine. Working out at the coolest point of the day can be safer, more comfortable and help you stay consistent.

• Hydrate: not having enough water can raise your body temperature, and dehydration can even lead to uterine contractions. Make sure to replenish fluids after a workout. Use the month of May to get in the habit of increasing your fluids and maybe even treat yourself to a new water bottle.

• Invest in workout gear or embrace the belly and sports bra look: If you no longer have moisture wicking clothing that fits, take some time during May to order a few new tops. You’ll want to be able to dissipate the summer heat. If you exercise regularly your sweat point will be lower in order to help with temperature regulation so you’ll want to stay comfortable and have clothing that drys quickly.

Postpartum Tips

If you’re still recovering from birth or building your fitness foundation, then your goals shouldn’t change too much with the season. However, there are a few tips that will help you plan for increased physical activity outside with your little one this summer.

• Invest in a new carrier or switch to a stroller: During the cold months it’s possible you were only wearing the baby around the house or for short walks. With the nice summer days, your walks will get longer (as baby gets heavier) and that can cause neck and back pain without a supportive carrier. Take the month of May to make sure you have the right gear. Look for something with thick shoulder straps and a waist belt. Consider using a stroller for long walks until your core is strong and functional again.

• Implement a walking progression: Before jumping in to longer walks and more physical activity, use the month of May to do it gradually. Aim to increase your walks 5-10 minutes each time or by gradual distance increments each week. Use interval style training to prepare your body for longer durations.

• A little extra attention to specific muscles: During the month of May set aside 10 minutes/day, at least 3 days per week to focus on strengthening your abs, low back and glutes. Also include mobility exercises for your hip flexors and thoracic spine.

Beyond Postpartum Tips

You’ve been exercising consistently, have a strong fitness foundation and just want a little push toward your goal of more defined arms or feeling comfortable in a two piece at the beach. There is nothing wrong with aesthetics being part of your goals and here are some tips to get you that much closer.

Choose a muscle to focus on: Keep with your regular routine, but choose one muscle group to emphasize during the month of May. Include an additional 10 minutes working that muscle each workout, aiming for 3 days per week of targeted training.

Increase your cardio: If you know me, you know I believe strength training is key. However, if your goal is to see the muscles you’ve been working hard for, a little extra cardio during the month of May can give your body what you need to drop your overall body fat percentage if needed (remember, you can’t target train fat away!). Try adding some intervals to a strength workout or moderate intensity cardio on your strength recovery days.

Increase protein and water: If your plan is to add some cardio for more calorie/fat burning as suggested above, make sure you don’t lose the muscle mass you’ve worked so hard for. Aim to get at least 1g protein/kg of body weight to help you sustain muscle. Don’t forget your body needs enough water to function properly so make sure to hydrate!

So whether you’re pregnant, postpartum or further along in your motherhood journey, May through June is a great time to put these tips into action.

Functional Training for Moms: Pre/Postnatal Exercise Tips

Long runs after work, trying new fitness classes with your friends, training hard five days per week, or possibly never working out a day in your life. This might have been what fitness looked like for you before pregnancy. Unless you had an injury you probably weren’t strength training a ton with function in mind, or adjusting your routine based on the stage of life you were in.

And then you got pregnant, where your body is changing outside of your control...you’re moving different, feeling different and priorities are shifting. This is really where the first phase of motherhood begins, and where your exercise program should prepare you for that. For many (unless you trained as an athlete), it's the first opportunity to really choose workouts that align with the physical and functional demands being placed on your body, as well as your stage of life.

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Here are a few functional training ideas and tips for early stages of motherhood:

Pregnancy

• Learn which core exercises are still appropriate for you

• Be sure to include breathing and pelvic floor work in your fitness routine

• Focus on lengthening chest muscles and strengthening upper back muscles

• Incorporate a variety of glute exercises

• Avoid impact when you start to feel pelvic pressure or incontinence during exercise

Early Postpartum (0-6 weeks)

• Begin reconnecting to core muscles with breath and simple exercises like hip lifts and pelvic tilts

• Adjust stroller handles to the proper height and enjoy short walking bouts if you’re feeling up to it

• Focus on body mechanics while holding the baby, sitting, and feeding

• Avoid impact exercise (low impact like walking is acceptable as tolerated)

Postpartum 6-12 weeks

• Increase the duration of low-impact activities (like walking) as tolerated

• Address pelvic floor or diastasis recti concerns with a professional

• Begin to progress through core exercises

• Incorporate strength exercises like deadlifts, lunges, or box squats that mimic daily life demands

Postpartum 12 weeks-12 months

• Gradually add more impact exercise if desired (and if strength training has been adequate)

• Begin to increase strength training volume, focus on movement patterns (push, pull, squat, lunge, hinge, rotate)

• Use more frequent, but shorter duration workouts to make consistency more attainable

• Use tools like the foam roller to address mobility and muscle tightness

This is by no means an exhaustive or very specific list, but hopefully, it gives you an idea of the importance of shifting your training focus to not just meet your goals, but also your needs. If you need help personalizing your program, take advantage of the Active Mom Fitness Signature Consult.

Fitness Consistency During a Pandemic: Plan Your Workouts Like You Plan Your Meals

This year has been all about tips and tricks to stay motivated and consistent with your workouts. I’m here to offer you a new strategy, and although it won’t work for everyone, it will give you a chance to shift your perspective. The reason for writing this, came from a question I got about “how to stay motivated with fitness during a pandemic”. My first thought was don’t rely on motivation. My second thought was to give yourself some grace. And then my mind went to the way we meal plan.

Indulge me...Consider your last family dinner. Did you find a recipe? Make a shopping list? Have to go to the store and then prepare a multi-step meal? Or maybe dinner was an old family favorite, made with pantry staples? If it was takeout, was it a go-to favorite, or did you scroll Grubhub searching a bit for a new spot? Maybe it was a combination meal where you bought some veggies already prepared, but fixed the main dish?

My point is that, no matter how you got that meal, the outcome was the same. You wanted a meal, and then you made it happen. My other point is that I bet you don’t always reach that outcome the same way. My assumption is that some weeks you have extra time and feel extra motivated, and those weeks you might take more time in selecting recipes and actually going to the store. Other weeks you might be short on time and do a combination of grocery delivery, meals that require no recipes, and maybe some take out.

Are you still following? Well, if you’re struggling to stay consistent with workouts, maybe you take that same approach. Maybe instead of having the same expectation for yourself each week and failing, you plan your workouts like you plan your meals. The only time I would say, the approach might not be effective is similar to if you have serious fitness goals and all you eat is takeout. That just doesn’t work. But, if your goals are a bit more flexible, then similar to how you eat, a varying weekly approach might be just what you need to stay consistent with fitness during a pandemic.

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So, how do you plan your workouts like you do your meals? 

Weeks that you’re short on time and energy (weeks you’re favoring take out): These are days where your workouts should be the most convenient and less intense. If walking is easiest for you, plan to do that. If jumping in your regular virtual class is best, that’s your move. Whatever it is, it should take minimal planning or thought. It also should energize you and not exhaust you, so monitor the intensity that gives you that best boost.

Note: maybe one day during this busy week you have a little extra time, so like you would search for a new take out spot, maybe this is when you add a bit of a twist to your convenient workouts. Try a new walking route or a new virtual class. Keep it convenient, but with a little bit more effort.

Weeks that you’re feeling super motivated (weeks you're searching for new recipes and taking the time to go to the store): These are the days you want to be more ambitious with your workouts. Perhaps you’re finding a new fitness studio to try or you’re adding an extra workout in that week. Maybe these are the days you’re increasing your training volume with more sets, reps or resistance. Take the overall motivation you’re feeling and roll it into fitness.

The last note is that if you operate better with more of a schedule…meaning you do your grocery shopping on the same day each week, or plan meals out ahead of time, or perhaps sticks with Meatless Mondays, Taco Tuesdays and so on…you’d probably have more success and consistency if you approached fitness that same way. You could pick one day to plan your workouts for the week (or have someone do it for you) and just stick to the script. This means you don’t even have to stay motivated, you just follow your plan. 

I’m hoping you found this perspective interesting and some of you may find it a helpful strategy. I think at the very least it allows us all to realize that fitness is a lifestyle and you look beyond the short term. One day or one week isn’t going to throw off a lifestyle. By planning workouts like you do your meal, it allows you to manage the ups and downs of life during a pandemic, with a bit more flexibility and acceptance of uncertainty. If you’re on a motivation rollercoaster and feeling inconsistent in your workouts, I’d say stop resisting and see what happens if you treat your workouts like you do your meals.

What Happens When You Give Up Weekday Wine? (Four Steps to Healthier Habits)

There’s always been this culture around moms and wine. In 2020 the culture for everyone became quarantine wine. Mom wine and quarantine wine have become part of the evening ritual for many. However before we discuss your commitment to give up week day wine, I’ll make my first point, which is: your reason for drinking wine probably isn’t as general and broad as, “it’s just what moms or people in a pandemic do”. So keep that in mind as you continue reading.

This article isn’t an opinion piece on drinking culture and really has not much to do with alcohol at all. It’s more about why we have certain habits and what happens when we try to change them. Many moms choose wine as an easy way to relax, have some me time, and escape from all the roles they maintain. Same with quarantine, what became a way to stay entertained for a couple of weeks of quarantine, turned into a routine or way to deal with stress as moved into a year of the pandemic.

Now let’s get back to the catchy headline; no drinking during the week (which is something I’ve heard from many clients as 2021 got underway). Many of you decided to drink less because you want to lose weight, improve sleep, or because you feel like this habit of daily wine has been going on too long. So what happens when you cut back on wine? I’ll give you my personal story.

I decided after the holidays that because I wasn’t moving as much, and things felt a little less festive that there was no need to keep wine in the house. Meaning I’d be eliminating the after dinner wine I would sometimes enjoy. I chose to do this because I wanted to be more conscious about unnecessary calories during more sedentary winter months. It was actually very easy for me not to buy, but what I realized is that I’d then buy occasional sweets instead (which is not something I normally do). I even bought juice, which I NEVER do. Why is this significant? Because I was basically replacing wine with something else and that something else just happened to be high in sugar. My replacement was not going to help me with my goal of watching calories. So although wine was easy for me to give up, I hadn’t addressed why I liked wine after dinner in the first place. I was just giving up one cultural habit for another...trading evening wine for evening sweets.

It was time to dig deeper and you should too. If you want to give something up, you have to figure out why you’re doing it in the first place. I came to the conclusion that wine wasn’t a stress reliever, it wasn’t an escape, it wasn’t an addiction, it wasn’t social. Wine was something I did at the end of the night that signified transition. It was where my day ended and evening began. I was in the habit of doing something to mark the change in time and maybe even give myself permission to drop most of my to-do list. When I gave up wine, I still subconsciously needed a transition and that became a sweet treat.

Once I acknowledged my need and the role the wine was playing, I was able to find a replacement I was happy with to signify that transition. This may sound cliche, but now my habit is to start to brew tea as I’m putting my daughter to bed, so that after I say goodnight I can grab my tea and take 5 minutes transitioning to evening mode. Now my replacement didn’t have to be beverage related. It could have been a workout or a bath or calling a friend or writing in a journal or finishing my last email for the day. I chose tea because it would accomplish my low cal goal and help with sleep (Trader Joe’s Well Rested tea). But the point is, if you're attempting to give up wine during the week, or change any other habit, you should first:

• Identify why you’re giving up wine/habit

• Identify the reason you’re drinking wine/or that particular habit

• Find a direct replacement that is healthy and will accomplish the same thing

• Assess whether that replacement has other benefits to solidify your decision

As I said, this article isn’t really about alcohol. If you want to give up hours of binge watching tv, you need to determine why you watch it in the first place and what you’ll do instead….or you’ll find yourself three hours in on the next Netflix trend this weekend.

Happy habit breaking!

Exercise After Baby: What Moms Really Want

This post came about after several conversations that I had with my client Simi. During our prenatal strength sessions, we’d often chat about not just her goals during pregnancy, but what they’d be after having her daughter. During one conversation we discussed the varying messages in media and society. On one hand you have the people assuming the ultimate goal is the “snapback”. On the other end of the spectrum was the “all bodies are beautiful” “you’ve just created life” camp. In between sets of TRX rows, we concluded that both perspectives are valid, and that the gray area in between is probably the sweet spot. Weight loss is a valid postpartum fitness goal if that’s important to you, but it would be nice if society understood that your body has been through a lot and “bouncing back” without work (after taking time to recover) is not the case for most.

Fast forward to us talking nine months postpartum, and Simi shares, “I remind myself that my being healthy and active (and thus more happy and energetic) is great for me AND my baby! Some weeks I slip (and allow plenty of grace for that!) but overall the scheduling helps keep me in a good rhythm.” This is from someone that was SUPER committed during pregnancy, sometimes getting 5-6 workouts in per week. But her for the stage of motherhood she is in now, motivation for exercise now is to be “happy and energetic”.

Simi’s perspective is not uncommon. With every client I work with, I ask them their top goals. The most common responses:

• Feel good about my body

• Feel energized

• Reduce pain/prevent injury

• Build Strength/build core strength

Is that to say weight loss isn’t important? Absolutely not. It just means that for new moms there are other priorities and these are the priorities that society, pop culture, and fitness professionals should recognize. It also means that we can appreciate what our body has done, but still want more for it…again, that gray area.

Simi admits her view did change after having her daughter, "My biggest view change is how quickly I want to get back into my pre-pregnancy shape. While this is absolutely a goal for me, I now realize that achieving it as quickly as I originally wanted would require more sacrifice and time commitment than I am willing to give. Time with my daughter and husband together, time with just my husband, indulging in good food and some wine (even though I maintain a healthy diet overall!), spending time with the few family members we can right now, and mental health days are all things I’m prioritizing in addition to exercise. The balance just means slower results, which is okay for me!"

Let’s keep having this conversation. Let’s make that gray area (of what moms really want) more acceptable and known.

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2019 Fitness Reflections: Don't Skip This Goal Setting Step

Setting goals, creating an overall plan and then designing a step by step process to achieve that goal is a strength of mine almost to a fault (as it can be time consuming to create detailed plans). However, this strength is what allows me to help others reach their goals and why I keep Active Mom Fitness training personalized. One discussion I like to have with people before looking forward is to get a picture of their past. So this year, as we approach 2020 and you get ready to set fitness goals for the New Year, I encourage you to reflect on 2019.

Taking the time to acknowledge success and identify challenges will better prepare you to not only set realistic and achievable goals, but put more thought into your plan to achieve them. Do yourself a favor, find 10 minutes and use these questions as a guide. Take a day to let your answers process and then get to goal setting.

2019 Fitness Reflection Questions

1. I was able to be the most consistent with exercise when______.

2. The biggest barrier to interfere with my exercise routine was______.

3. If I plan ahead, I could work around that barrier by ______.

4. One physical activity I’m really happy I did this year was______.

5. One goal that turned out to be unrealistic was_______, because_________.

6. I said I was going to ______ this year, and I did!

7. Exercise this year made me feel______.

8. I really enjoyed being physically active with my family when we ______.

9. One area in my fitness that I could use more guidance and support is______.

10. Yay me! The best part of my wellness in 2019 was ______

I hope you found this reflection enlightening. Keep this in mind as you set and get ready to crush your 2020 goals! If you’re looking for guidance on setting and achieving new goals, schedule a free phone consultation to see if Active Mom Fitness can support you in the new year!

The Trainer’s Trick to Designing a Better Workout

It's been 8 weeks, are you more fit than 2016?

New Year’s Day was two months ago which means those of us that made fitness resolutions should not only be feeling, but also seeing the changes to our body. If you don’t feel stronger, leaner or more confident yet, no worries, here’s a formula to help you design a better workout.

What I’m sharing is not a new method. Personal Trainers have been using this method for years. It’s called the FITT Principle and I’m going to break it down for you.

First off, FITT stands for frequency, intensity, time and type. If you have already set a specific fitness goal (start here if you haven’t) and are aware of your current fitness capabilities then you can use this formula to design a workout plan that will lead to results.

The first thing to understand is that these variables are interdependent, meaning your frequency will affect the intensity of the activity and the intensity will impact the time, and so on.

You also have to understand that for your body to change there has to be sufficient and progressive challenge, as well as sufficient recovery.

The chart above is for most adults based on the American College of Sports Medicine’s recommendations for aerobic exercise to maintain general health. Let’s consider this example: A healthy mom of two that can barely find time to workout, but enjoys exercising outside wants to meet general health guidelines.

She’ll want to start with the frequency variable when planning since that’s her limiting factor. She’s decided she can realistically do 3 days per week. She has about an hour each of those days to workout so she decides to meet the guidelines by exercising 50 minutes each workout. This is a longer workout so it’s sufficient to exercise at a moderate intensity. She enjoys being outside so has planned to bike 3 days per week at a moderate intensity, for 50 minutes.

What happens if she has less time for exercise one morning? She can either increase her intensity and shorten the workout to meet her time restriction or she can keep the moderate intensity and split the time by doing 25 minutes in the morning and 25 minutes in the evening (when splitting the workout time, you’ll want to do at least 10 minute segments).

Make sense? Good, you can now use the FITT principle to create your own plan based on your specific training goal and capabilities. Don’t forget to incorporate a plan for resistance training. You can use ACSM guidelines as a starting point.

If you’re a Philly mom with a goal to lean out, become stronger and keep up with your kids-schedule a Screening and Consultation and stat your customized fitness journey today.

New Year, New You in 5 Steps

New Year, New You? The number one New Year's Resolution for Americans is to “get in shape”

This is probably the case because most of us are ready to stop the indulging we began in November...maybe October if your derailment began after eating most of your kid's Halloween candy. I want to tell you that if your resolution is to “GET IN SHAPE” then YOU’RE GOING TO FAIL. Let me explain why and let me help you succeed.

Don’t worry, I’m not one of those people that hates New Year’s Fitness Resolutions. Actually, it’s quite the opposite. I’m a planner/list-maker/organizer so I actually get excited about planning for a New Year. I’m also a big believer in focusing on your health, including your weight, physical activity level and new fitness challenges. So why did I make that statement? Saying you're going to "get in shape" is too general. The truth is many of us make the resolution to “exercise more”, “eat healthier”, “be more active”, but what does that even mean? We fail not because we're not good enough or capable of doing it, but because we don't have the proper plan or support in place. If you’re serious about your resolution, it needs to be a goal, you nee to have a plan and you'll have a better chance at success with proper support.

I’m guessing you’re not a stranger to goal setting so I’m not writing this to teach you something new. I’m writing this to look you in the face (not really) and tell you that if you said you want to “get in shape”, let’s take the time together, right now to make sure that happens. I haven’t yet sat down to write any of my 2017 fitness resolutions so I’m going to do it with you RIGHT NOW using the SMART goals method. Let's get started together using these 5 steps.

1. State your SPECIFIC goal. Mine is to finally run the Broad Street Run. I've actually gotten in before, but haven't actually had the chance to run it, so this is my year! What is your well-defined, specific resolution/goal?

2. Make sure it’s MEASURABLE. You should clearly know when you have achieved your goal. Saying you're going to "get in shape" is much to subjective. My goal is easily measurable. I either do it or I don’t, but I’m going to make it more specific and measureable by adding a time. My goal now is to run Broad Street in under 1 hour and 25 minutes (ah! Now it’s real!). If you have a race goal, use this calculator to set a goal finish time or pace.

3. Now let’s check to see if our resolution/goal is AGREED UPON/ACHIEVABLE. Well, my goal only involves me (if I didn’t already have set workout days that my husband knows I’ll be at the gym, then I’d probably need to check with him to ensure I’d have adequate training time). How about you? Who else is affected by your goal? Is everyone on the same page? 

4. Next we check to make sure it’s REALISTIC. For me, I’ve done races before, I’m suuuuper experienced in creating training plans (did I mention, I’m a planner and exercise physiologist?) and as of now I believe I’m physically able and ready to train. So yes, if I train, my goal is realistic (unless I can't get in or buy a bib...thinking positive thoughts). Is yours? If it’s a fitness goal and you need some help determining if your fitness goal is realistic for your level and ability, please don’t hesitate to reach out.

5. Lastly, is your goal TIME-BASED and TRACKABLE? This is important. Set a time-line. How will you track your progress? Do you have enough time? When will you achieve your goal? For me, I plan to follow a 12-week training plan so my time-line begins on February 12th and race day is May 7, 2017. I will create and follow weekly training plans, which makes it very trackable. 

And there you have it. We've both set a very specific, measureable and realistic 2017 New Year’s Resolution. The next two keys to success are making sure you have a specific training plan to achieve your goal and support. In the upcoming weeks I'll make sure to share some of my thoughts on creating a plan and enlisting support. Please share your goal in the comments. If you can't wait for my future posts to help you with planning and support, check out the programs I offer or contact me and we'll see how I can help.