Five Home Workout Tips For Moms: Exercise When You're Home With Kids?!?!

Some of you are always juggling family time and fitness time. Some of you have a good routine going where you can escape to the gym. Others may be wondering how you can possibly workout with kids at home. However at the time this post was written, all moms are in this together. We’re home with the kids (social distancing) and need to figure out how to fit in exercise. These 5 Tips require a bit of a shift in how we think about exercise, but trust me, you can absolutely maintain and gain fitness while working out at home.

1. Be creative in what you consider a workout. Your three year old might not get excited if you ask them to participate in squat jumps, planks or sprints. However, what if you said, “join mommy and jump like a frog (squat jumps), build the strongest bridge (plank) or be a race car driver (sprints)”? Stretch your creative brain and you and your child are in for a good workout.

2. Short bursts are best. Most children don’t have the capacity for endurance workouts or have a ton of stamina. Take a look around a playground. You’ll see kids running running running and then stop for breaks to climb or swing. Consider this format when planning your workout and you’ll save your sanity. Interval workouts have proven fitness results so plan for 30 seconds to 2 minutes of exercise followed by 1-2 minutes of recovery…also known as tending to whatever your child needs during that time.

3. Break out the music. Seem obvious? Who doesn’t love a good playlist during a sweat session? Working out at home with kids may mean you switch up your mix. Look for songs that will keep them entertained or even guide in their movement. Think “head, shoulders, knees and toes” or “5 little monkeys jumping on the bed”. Better yet, follow along to this freeze dance workout with your kiddo.

4. More is more. More short workouts throughout the day are better than one long workout. You’ll have more flexibility if you’re trying to squeeze in three 10-minute sessions versus a 30-minute session. Workouts boost your energy and mood so an added bonus is you’ll stretch the positive vibes throughout the day. Additionally, this mimics a school schedule so if your kiddo is used to dance, free play, recess or gym it's a great way to get them on board with your exercise break. It’s a win-win for you and the fam.

5. Accept your routine/workout won’t be the same. If most of your workouts take place outside of the home and you temporarily have to find a way for fitness with your children, don’t stress by trying to replicate those workouts. It’s OK to switch up exercise goals and focus. Think of athletes. They have coaches and professionals ensuring they don’t do the same routine year round. They have different seasons. Consider this a change in season for you. Choose a new focus that’s realistic for you. Maybe this means focusing more on yoga, or recovery, or body weight exercise?? Don’t stress. It doesn’t have to be the same. Just keep moving!

See my “working out your workout routine” interview with CBS Philly here. If you’re looking for a little more accountability, try Active Mom Fitness Virtual Live Streams or Private Training. Be sure to subscribe to the Active Mom Fitness Youtube channel for free content.

"Mom Butt": When Your Jeans Don't Fit The Same After Baby

Yes, the term is unflattering, but it’s a thing.

The most important part of your fourth trimester is your postpartum body recovering and building strength...however once you’ve made progress there, you may start to question where did your butt (glutes) go???

Sooo for real, where did it go?

Keep in mind your body changed so that you could carry a child, it takes time for those adaptations to shift. For some, it can take up to 12 months for tissues to heal and hormones to regulate (all affecting your fitness and the fit of your jeans), so be patient. 

During pregnancy anatomical changes occur to make room for the baby. Heavier breasts, larger belly, wider hips...they all impact glute use, therefore impacting glute strength and shape. 

Ok, I get that, but why didn’t it come back post-baby?

Unfortunately, it’s not just going to return because the baby arrived. Like any muscle, you have to work to maintain it, to strengthen it, and to grow it. However, during the postpartum period or when many moms return to exercise they do things to sabotage those efforts.

I don’t want to get in my own way…how am I sabotaging my efforts?

• Focusing too much on cardio. Cardio is great if you love it and it obviously has health benefits. However, in general, cardio doesn’t build muscle the way strength training does. If you enjoy it, do it…but if your priority is muscle definition then it shouldn’t be a priority in your exercise routine.

• Not planning ahead and grabbing snacks and meals without enough protein. In general, it’s recommended that people consume .8g of protein per kg of body weight daily. If you are strength training that range can increase to 1.2-1.7g/kg. It’s hard to consume that amount without some planning and effort.

• Not dealing with pain and recovery first. Glutes connect to the pelvis which is directly impacted by pregnancy. If you have any pelvic pain or pelvic floor concerns, address those first or along with your fitness program. If you don’t, you’ll limit your ability to perform exercises correctly and put yourself at risk for injury.

• Not making time for exercise. If you’re picturing sculpted glutes, it’s going to take time. It’s important to be realistic with yourself. If your child is still very young, lofty glute goals may not be an option from a time perspective. If that’s the case, a quick and functional full-body strength training plan may be more appropriate to start. It will set you up for success when you are ready to commit more time.

Got it. Anything else I should keep in mind?

If you’re fully recovered and ready to begin sculpting some curves, this is what it’s going to take:

• Consider your glutes as part of your core system. During the postpartum period, all muscles that connect to your pelvis need to be strengthened and learn to work together as a unit. Strengthen the glutes, but don’t neglect your inner/outer thigh, back extensors, pelvic floor, and abs.

• Train using multiple movements. Your glutes help your body perform many movements so your training plan should account for this. Perform squats, lunges, hip extensions, deadlifts, hip thrusts, hip abductions, etc.

• Remember, your body is not going to be the same as pre-pregnancy. Is this a bad thing? Not at all! The best part of postpartum fitness is the opportunity to approach training in a new way, with the ability to be stronger than ever before!

Feeling strong and confident as a mom is the most important thing, but, if you have personal aesthetic goals, there is nothing wrong with that. Get after it!

If you’re looking for some guidance, try my self-paced Mom Butt: Glute Training Essentials Program!