How To Start Working Out: Framework for Moms

Whether you’re pregnant and want to begin exercising to have a more comfortable pregnancy or a new mom ready to focus on fitness again, with all of the apps and internet clutter it can be hard to figure out where to begin. That is why I’m sharing the method I developed and have used with hundreds of moms and moms-to-be. It’s called Core, Function & Fitness (CFF). CFF is an approach. It’s a strategy. It’s a guide to help you determine where to begin your fitness journey and a framework to help you prioritize what to focus on during your workouts.

Whether you’re pregnant and want to begin exercising to have a more comfortable pregnancy or a new mom ready to focus on fitness again, with all of the apps and internet clutter it can be hard to figure out where to begin. That is why I’m sharing the method I developed and have used with hundreds of moms and moms-to-be. It’s called Core, Function & Fitness (CFF). CFF is an approach. It’s a strategy. It’s a guide to help you determine where to begin your fitness journey and a framework to help you prioritize what to focus on during your workouts.

The Foundation

During and after pregnancy, the foundation of your fitness program should be core strength and function. Core refers to the 360-degree cylinder from your diaphragm to your pelvic floor, including both abdominal and back muscles. A functional core means that your deep stabilizing muscles activate to support your spine before any movement. A functional core also means, you know how to breathe (exhale on exertion) with movement, and that you’re treating any pelvic floor concerns like tight pelvic floor muscles or urinary incontinence. A strong and functional core will enhance your ability to advance in exercise and will make daily life more comfortable.

If we look at CFF as a pyramid, “core” is the base layer and what you’ll prioritize when you begin an exercise program. This doesn’t mean that core needs to be your only focus, but if you’re short on time or searching for workouts, this will help you strategize and select the correct exercises. If time and energy aren’t an issue you can certainly do workouts that are more than core, but keep in mind that if your core isn’t yet strong and functional, you’ll want to ensure any other formats of exercise you’re choosing don’t require more core strength then you presently have.

For example, if you’re pregnant and beginning an exercise program, you can focus on breathing and engaging your abs with each movement you perform. So if you’re doing squats, lunges, and arm exercises, rather than just going through the motion, you’re exhaling on exertion or engaging the deep abs as you curl the dumbbell during a biceps exercise.

Middle of the Pyramid

So now that you’ve spent some time activating your pelvic floor, deep abs, and using your breath, you’re ready to shift your focus to “function”. The term functional training is a bit trendy so I’ll provide you with my simple definition. Functional training is performing exercises that help you meet the physical demands in your life. This means factoring in the type of job you have, the workouts you plan to do, or the physical demands of caring for your child at different stages. During pregnancy functional training can be performing exercises that help you better adapt to the changes your body is experiencing, like strengthening your back because you’re being pulled forward due to the weight of your breasts and belly. Function is the next step in my model because you should be able to feel good moving through your daily life before setting more lofty fitness goals (for example if your back hurts every time you lift your child, doing an hour spin class maybe shouldn’t be your priority). Functional training also means addressing pain and specific weaknesses. It is easier to attain function when you have a strong core, so for that reason “function” sits on top of the “core” layer in my pyramid.

Top of the Pyramid

You’re ready to move up the pyramid when you have a solid core foundation and you’re functionally moving well during the day and your workouts. “Fitness” is the top piece and refers to goals such as muscle definition, weight loss, sports performance, and running. This is the last step along the CFF progression because you’ll have a better chance of achieving fitness when you effectively know how to engage your core and you know how to perform exercises correctly and without pain. I’ll reiterate that it doesn’t mean that you have to wait to set your fitness goals, but increasing your run distance shouldn’t be the priority before you’ve spent time on the other components. When you move to the top of the pyramid, the idea is that you’ve already set yourself up to achieve your specific fitness goals.

For example, if you do have a goal to run postpartum, you can first focus on making sure your core can support proper running form, and that your pelvic floor muscles can handle the impact and load. Functional training might include single-leg strength activities so that when you do run, your body is better prepared. 

Summary

I developed the Core, Function and Fitness method to help you prioritize your efforts, and make workout selection less overwhelming. The pyramid can also be explained as a pie chart with the percentages of core, function and fitness components shifting as your needs are being met. Maybe you’re starting with core being 80% of the chart because you just had a baby, but after a few months of training, core might then become just 30% and fitness taking the majority. This pie chart is a good visual because it emphasizes that you’re never solely focusing on just one thing. All components are important and will be integrated into your plan.

Whether you like the pyramid or the pie chart, the main point I'm making is that this is a tool that can keep you active through all 40 weeks of pregnancy, and help you feel stronger than ever after having a baby.

Designing a Personalized Fitness Plan

Don’t get me wrong, I love seeing so many apps like Nike and Peloton offer prenatal and postpartum workouts. However, the downside is that most moms will jump around to different workouts and won’t “personalize” their exercise program.

When I talk about a personalized workout plan, I’m referring to developing and following an exercise regimen specifically for you. This doesn’t mean you have to work with a personal trainer or that every exercise session needs to be planned specifically for you, however, that is the ultimate way to make sure you have a customized exercise plan. 

Personalization just means that you’re aware of what you need, and what it will take for you to reach your goals. You can still try different apps or studio workouts, but you should be intentional in the classes you’re choosing, when you’re doing them, and how you’re recovering from them. 

Motherhood is a time to be strategic in your plan and stay away from haphazardly following fitness influencers and trends. Personalizing your fitness routine will help you stay consistent and see the results you’re working toward! Exercise can be your biggest mental and physical health tool if you approach it the right way!

What are the benefits of personalizing your mom fitness program?

Personalization is advantageous for all moms, but particularly when you’re training during and after pregnancy. Your prenatal exercise routine and postpartum fitness plan should most definitely be customized. With a tailored regimen, you can expect:

• Workouts that fit into your daily routine. With a personalized plan, you design the workout schedule around your existing commitments (which often fluctuate as your child goes through different phases, so be ready to adapt often). 

• Personal goal achievement. Generic plans only help you meet general goals. If you have specific goals, then you need a targeted workout plan. For example previous to pregnancy you may have been training for toned abs, but during pregnancy, this is not your aim so your plan needs to change so that it aligns with your prenatal goals. 

• A safe progression in exercise. A personalized plan will have you progress at a pace appropriate for your individual fitness level. Each workout should build on the previous one.

• Faster results. Don’t spend your precious time and energy on exercises that may not be your priority. Instead, customize your plan for effectiveness and efficiency. For example, you may have liked using the elliptical machine during pregnancy, but if your main focus postpartum is alleviating back pain then the majority of your effort should be spent on core stability workouts instead of sweating away at the gym.

So how do you personalize your fitness routine?

The first step is being self-aware of the factors that you should account for. Here are a few examples of things to consider when planning for fitness success:

1. Exercise History

2. Current Energy Levels

3. Physical Injuries or Conditions

4. Lifestyle Factors

By reflecting on your unique situation and needs in areas like these, you can craft a fitness routine with purpose. Try this self-assessment as an initial step toward personalizing your exercise program.

Evaluate Often

As you move through motherhood your needs WILL change so remain flexible and be willing to reassess. Your needs in your second trimester may be different than your first trimester, and your progress postpartum may be slower than expected. Be ready to make adjustments so that your fitness journey is fluid and customized.  

No one-size-fits-all workout plan can give you the same benefits as a thoughtful and personalized plan. I'm on a mission to help moms feel strong and confident by taking control of their fitness journey. I hope I’ve inspired you to determine a clear direction for your unique needs so that you can develop a fitness plan that works for you!

How Can You Find Time For Exercise in Your Busy Mom Life?

Running a business, grocery shopping, making dinner, cleaning the house, spending quality time with my daughter, making time to catch up with friends, attending birthdays and weddings, sleep...where do I find time to workout? The answer is I don't "find" the time, I "make" the time. If your life as a mom is anything like I just described, then you most likely will never "find" time either. This however, doesn't make working out impossible, and doesn't mean you should skip exercise until your schedule is "less crazy". What it means is that you're going to have to shift your mentality, and use some strategy to make physical activity a constant in your busy mom life. Exercise is not a luxury. Physical activity is essential for your mental and physical health so let's take a look at some tips that will help you "make" time for exercise.

My first piece of advice works well for moms who are adjusting to a new and unpredictable schedule. This could be when you’re going from maternity leave back to work, when your child starts kindergarten, or if your partner gets a new job with different hours. You will be less likely to succeed in transition times if you try to stick to your old routine. Instead, I can recommend a better strategy:

The first strategy is to choose 2-3 exercises that require minimal equipment and can be done anywhere. As you learn your new schedule, you’ll find unexpected pockets of time (even if just a few minutes). Commit to sprinkling in those 2-3 exercises when you can. Once you’re successful with 2-3 exercises, perhaps you can take an extra few minutes and add another 1-2 exercises. Will this strategy get you in the best shape of your life? No, but it will keep you consistent so you won’t have to start over, and it will allow you to trial new exercise times to see what would be best for your new workout schedule.

My second piece of advice works well for moms who multitask and keep running to-do lists. My suggestion is to organize your list with the top five being your absolute priorities. Make these priorities specific. For example, if work is a priority, what part of your work is the most important? For me, it would be time at the fitness studio and planning personalized programs for people. Another priority might be managing your household, but again make it specific. Is paying bills more important than doing the dishes, or is picking up the playroom more important than organizing the spice rack? I know, you’re probably thinking that this will never work for you because everything is important and definitely more than five things are priority. But the truth is that you’re already making these decisions every day. You’re always doing one thing instead of another, I’m just saying be more deliberate about what takes the top of your list. Kids I’m sure are on your list every day, so again be specific. Is it important to do bath and bedtime with them every night or do you prioritize quality time playing outdoors on the weekends? Your priority list can and should change. For me, it usually changes every week. Yours might change every couple of months or every day. Whenever your priorities change, make a new list. You’re going to use that list as a guide. Your top five always come first and then you “find” time for all of the other items that aren’t your top priorities. So yes, I might have 10 emails in my inbox that I want to respond to, but if it’s not in my top five, but walking is, then those 10 emails wait until after I walk. This is a way to hold yourself accountable and do the things that matter most, first. Exercise won’t always make the list, and that’s OK. By knowing that, you won’t stress over not getting in a workout. However, if you find that exercise never makes the list, then I urge you to take a look at what else you’re doing for your physical and mental health, and whatever those things are, keep those as a priority.

The last piece of advice works well for any mom who doesn’t do everything herself. My recommendation is to look at exercise as you would everything else. You ask for help with your taxes, you enlist a professional to do your hair, you divide the household chores, and you vent to your girlfriends…support is needed in so many areas of your life, and fitness should be no different. Whether it’s childcare support, being more efficient by working with an exercise professional, or having a gym buddy, you'll be more consistent with exercise if you can lean on someone else.

To wrap things up, the take-home point is that time for exercise is rarely going to just appear. It’s always going to come from how you prioritize your daily activities and how adaptable you are with the constant transitions in your life as a mom. It won’t always be easy, and sometimes it won’t even be possible, but you have to “make” the time. I don’t want you to have piles of folded clean clothes if the exchange is ending your day with back pain. I don’t want you to feel proud that you’ve never missed bath time if that means you can’t feel proud of how you’re caring for your body. I don’t want you to feel strong at work because you meet every deadline if that means you feel mentally weak because you don’t have a way to de-stress. If you’re a mom and want to make exercise part of your life, you occasionally have to drop the ball in one area, you need to determine what’s most important to you, and you have to be adaptable.

Prefer to watch a video on the topic? Check out Mastering Mom Fitness on Youtube.

What is Functional Strength Training for Moms?

The fitness industry often sees spikes in new trends year to year. At a point in time, functional training was a top trend, so when you Google the term you’ll find various definitions. The most simple way to describe functional strength training is that it focuses on movements and muscles that help you meet the physical demands of your life. Whether you’re a weekend golfer, a sanitation worker lifting heavy bags, or a mom who needs to be able to push a stroller or chase a toddler, you have repetitive physical demands that require you to master specific movements that require specific muscles. Training for those demands would be considered functional training.

So what are the functional needs of moms?

Your physical demands will vary in each stage of motherhood, and your strength program should adapt along with that. Here are some examples of the physical demands and an example of the movements or muscles that could be a part of your functional strength training program.

• Pregnancy changes like heavier breasts and belly: to combat the shift in the center of gravity, your program should ensure that your posterior muscles like back extensors, glutes, and hamstrings are strong enough because they will be overworked.

• The goal of running a 5K as your first race after having a baby: a functional program might focus on building cardiovascular endurance through a run/walk interval program, but also incorporating pelvic floor in your core training to prepare for the impact of running.

• Breast or bottle feeding frequently: the forward-leaning and rounded shoulder posture means your program should combat that position by focusing on lengthening your chest muscles while strengthening your back muscles.

• Wearing your baby in a carrier: The additional weight of your baby means more demand on your core as you move. A progressive core stability program is key.

• Carrying a toddler that gets too tired to walk: same as above, but now the load is even heavier and not as static. Not only do you have to be able to stabilize your spine, but your program should train muscles for the quick activation required when your child decides to squirm or lean back out of your arms abruptly.

• Coming up off the floor from a diaper change: a movement that mimics that pattern is the lunge, so variations of the lunge would be essential in your strength program.

• Lifting your baby out. of the crib: You often think squatting is the correct way to lift something, but the crib makes squatting tough. Instead, focus on mastering the deadlift…it will save you from back pain.

So similar to the athlete who needs to train to be strong and functional in their sport, moms have very specific and repetitive physical demands. Functional strength training for moms is to intentionally train the movements and muscles that will help them feel strong and meet the physical demands of motherhood, with confidence and without pain.

How do you know if your strength training program is functional?

With so many fitness options available it can be overwhelming to discern which programs would be considered functional, and not just functional, but a program that accounts for the body’s changes and repetitive movements during and after pregnancy. To help you evaluate your workouts, here are a few characteristics of a program that would be considered functional and beneficial for you:

• There is a plan specifically designed to meet your needs. If you take a spin class one day, a Peloton arms workout the next, and end your week with a booty builder workout on YouTube, this might be a great way to meet the recommended physical activity guidelines, but if your goal is to be able to sit 8 hours per day in front of a computer, wear your baby as you explore the city on the weekends, and take a family hiking trip in the summer…those workouts do not make up a functional training plan.

• There is an assessment: An assessment will help you determine your current strengths, weaknesses, motor control ability, mobility, and movements that cause pain. This baseline evaluation will inform the priorities of your workouts and functional strength program.

• Programs focus on movement patterns (lunge, squat, hinge, rotate, push, pull): In focusing on patterns you’ll get really good at having the right muscles fire at the right time, which will improve how you move and accomplish your daily tasks. Movement patterns involve several muscle groups so you’ll still achieve the “toned” arms you’re going for, but with the added benefit of helping you function.

• Intentional progression: because functional programs focus on major movement patterns, they will always be a part of your program, but a planned progression so that you continue to be challenged.

Hopefully, you understand what functional training is, what functional programs look like, and the benefits of functional strength training for moms. In my opinion, moms who focus on functional strength training stay consistent with exercise and are more motivated to challenge themselves. Since the results of your efforts show up in daily life, like carrying three bags of groceries instead of one, results can feel more rewarding.

If you’re looking for more guidance, visit www.activemomfitness.com or www.corefunctionfitness.com for live and self-paced programs.

Fitness Consistency During a Pandemic: Plan Your Workouts Like You Plan Your Meals

This year has been all about tips and tricks to stay motivated and consistent with your workouts. I’m here to offer you a new strategy, and although it won’t work for everyone, it will give you a chance to shift your perspective. The reason for writing this, came from a question I got about “how to stay motivated with fitness during a pandemic”. My first thought was don’t rely on motivation. My second thought was to give yourself some grace. And then my mind went to the way we meal plan.

Indulge me...Consider your last family dinner. Did you find a recipe? Make a shopping list? Have to go to the store and then prepare a multi-step meal? Or maybe dinner was an old family favorite, made with pantry staples? If it was takeout, was it a go-to favorite, or did you scroll Grubhub searching a bit for a new spot? Maybe it was a combination meal where you bought some veggies already prepared, but fixed the main dish?

My point is that, no matter how you got that meal, the outcome was the same. You wanted a meal, and then you made it happen. My other point is that I bet you don’t always reach that outcome the same way. My assumption is that some weeks you have extra time and feel extra motivated, and those weeks you might take more time in selecting recipes and actually going to the store. Other weeks you might be short on time and do a combination of grocery delivery, meals that require no recipes, and maybe some take out.

Are you still following? Well, if you’re struggling to stay consistent with workouts, maybe you take that same approach. Maybe instead of having the same expectation for yourself each week and failing, you plan your workouts like you plan your meals. The only time I would say, the approach might not be effective is similar to if you have serious fitness goals and all you eat is takeout. That just doesn’t work. But, if your goals are a bit more flexible, then similar to how you eat, a varying weekly approach might be just what you need to stay consistent with fitness during a pandemic.

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So, how do you plan your workouts like you do your meals? 

Weeks that you’re short on time and energy (weeks you’re favoring take out): These are days where your workouts should be the most convenient and less intense. If walking is easiest for you, plan to do that. If jumping in your regular virtual class is best, that’s your move. Whatever it is, it should take minimal planning or thought. It also should energize you and not exhaust you, so monitor the intensity that gives you that best boost.

Note: maybe one day during this busy week you have a little extra time, so like you would search for a new take out spot, maybe this is when you add a bit of a twist to your convenient workouts. Try a new walking route or a new virtual class. Keep it convenient, but with a little bit more effort.

Weeks that you’re feeling super motivated (weeks you're searching for new recipes and taking the time to go to the store): These are the days you want to be more ambitious with your workouts. Perhaps you’re finding a new fitness studio to try or you’re adding an extra workout in that week. Maybe these are the days you’re increasing your training volume with more sets, reps or resistance. Take the overall motivation you’re feeling and roll it into fitness.

The last note is that if you operate better with more of a schedule…meaning you do your grocery shopping on the same day each week, or plan meals out ahead of time, or perhaps sticks with Meatless Mondays, Taco Tuesdays and so on…you’d probably have more success and consistency if you approached fitness that same way. You could pick one day to plan your workouts for the week (or have someone do it for you) and just stick to the script. This means you don’t even have to stay motivated, you just follow your plan. 

I’m hoping you found this perspective interesting and some of you may find it a helpful strategy. I think at the very least it allows us all to realize that fitness is a lifestyle and you look beyond the short term. One day or one week isn’t going to throw off a lifestyle. By planning workouts like you do your meal, it allows you to manage the ups and downs of life during a pandemic, with a bit more flexibility and acceptance of uncertainty. If you’re on a motivation rollercoaster and feeling inconsistent in your workouts, I’d say stop resisting and see what happens if you treat your workouts like you do your meals.

Quiz: How Important is Fitness to You During the Holidays?

Schedule irregularity, emotions/stress at a high level, guilt about nutritional choices, priority shifts...the holidays can derail your fitness. The truth is that for most of us, the period from the end of November to January looks different than your life right now.

And before you even continue reading, I'd like you to ask yourself...how important is your fitness during the 5-6 weeks of the holiday season? Seriously, would you say:

• VERY IMPORTANT

• MODERATELY IMPORTANT

• NOT IMPORTANT AT ALL

Once you have your answer, skip to the appropriate section for my suggestions. This is a no judgment zone, do what works for you.

VERY IMPORTANT

This is usually the choice if you've been making progress, you feel better when you exercise, you don't want to disrupt your routine or feel like you have to "get back on track". And in that case, it absolutely makes sense to create a plan so that you can enjoy the holidays while keeping up with exercise. Here are my suggestions:

• Make physical activity part of your tradition. Plan a pre-dinner walk or jog, go ice skating, do a 12 days of fitness challenge or turkey trot (virtual 5K).

• Be an early riser! Even if you don't normally workout in the mornings, commit to AM workouts. There will be less chance of something getting in the way and it will give you time to enjoy the evenings with your family.

• Pick a focus. If you're seeing a lot of progress in one area of fitness, let that be your priority and give yourself some grace in the other areas. Example: make strength training a priority and maybe bike a little less or vice versa.

• Commit: schedule and pay ahead of time for any classes, training or activities you'd like to stick with. Example: Purchase ice skating tickets, schedule with your personal trainer, put workouts in your calendar.

MODERATELY IMPORTANT

This is usually the choice if you've been pretty consistent with fitness and based on past experience know that a little less consistency during the holidays won't break you. You're the type of person that can get back on track pretty quickly. You probably like to balance fitness and indulging a bit. Here are my suggestions:

• Plan to be flexible. Rather than planning workouts for specific days of the week, plan ahead for the type of workouts you like to complete. Example: 2 strength workouts within the week. That way you can fit them in when you have time and not feel guilty if you miss a "Monday workout".

• Choose less intense workouts. If you tend to feel a little more laid back about fitness during the holiday you're probably less likely to want to go all out. Aim for shorter duration and less sweaty.

• Be OK with maintenance. Give yourself some grace that you might not see any gains and that's OK. Your goal is to maintain and not self-sabotage.

NOT IMPORTANT

This is usually the choice if A) you're not consistent now so why start during the holidays B) trying to fit in exercise feels stressful C) You've been working so hard, you're OK with giving yourself a break...you're also confident that you can get back on track quickly. Here are my suggestions:

• Choose a new activity or workout. Make it as a treat or form of self care. Get completely out of your normal routine and make it something you'll look forward to. Set something up just once per week.

• Keep moving. Although formal workouts might not be your thing during the holidays, aim to get in lots of walking, dancing or activities like hiking, skiing or sledding with your family.

• Don't completely rule it out. There may be days that you do feel like a good workout. Don't decide on weeks of inactivity because that's just not healthy. Have a go-to workout on hand for days you have the time.

• Have a plan to begin again in January. Book classes, activities or training sessions now so that you're all set when the holidays end! It’s not getting off track if it’s in the plan.

If you're looking for a workout that:

• You can keep on-hand to do when you feel like it

• Is flexible and can be done anytime

• Helps you commit to fitness during the holidays

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The Trainer’s Trick to Designing a Better Workout

It's been 8 weeks, are you more fit than 2016?

New Year’s Day was two months ago which means those of us that made fitness resolutions should not only be feeling, but also seeing the changes to our body. If you don’t feel stronger, leaner or more confident yet, no worries, here’s a formula to help you design a better workout.

What I’m sharing is not a new method. Personal Trainers have been using this method for years. It’s called the FITT Principle and I’m going to break it down for you.

First off, FITT stands for frequency, intensity, time and type. If you have already set a specific fitness goal (start here if you haven’t) and are aware of your current fitness capabilities then you can use this formula to design a workout plan that will lead to results.

The first thing to understand is that these variables are interdependent, meaning your frequency will affect the intensity of the activity and the intensity will impact the time, and so on.

You also have to understand that for your body to change there has to be sufficient and progressive challenge, as well as sufficient recovery.

The chart above is for most adults based on the American College of Sports Medicine’s recommendations for aerobic exercise to maintain general health. Let’s consider this example: A healthy mom of two that can barely find time to workout, but enjoys exercising outside wants to meet general health guidelines.

She’ll want to start with the frequency variable when planning since that’s her limiting factor. She’s decided she can realistically do 3 days per week. She has about an hour each of those days to workout so she decides to meet the guidelines by exercising 50 minutes each workout. This is a longer workout so it’s sufficient to exercise at a moderate intensity. She enjoys being outside so has planned to bike 3 days per week at a moderate intensity, for 50 minutes.

What happens if she has less time for exercise one morning? She can either increase her intensity and shorten the workout to meet her time restriction or she can keep the moderate intensity and split the time by doing 25 minutes in the morning and 25 minutes in the evening (when splitting the workout time, you’ll want to do at least 10 minute segments).

Make sense? Good, you can now use the FITT principle to create your own plan based on your specific training goal and capabilities. Don’t forget to incorporate a plan for resistance training. You can use ACSM guidelines as a starting point.

If you’re a Philly mom with a goal to lean out, become stronger and keep up with your kids-schedule a Screening and Consultation and stat your customized fitness journey today.